Church Family,

This week has been a nightmare. I spent a significant amount of time at the Iowa City hospital, and processing the events of this week while my father went through a significant brain surgery was surreal (the surgery went well- thanks for prayers). While I am not familiar with much of Charlie Kirk’s content and talking points, I have woken up in the middle of the night with him, his family and this moment on my mind. I’ve been haunted by it. As I have personally processed the assassination, I have been filled with rage, anger and hatred at times. I am ashamed to confess that I have scrolled too much and prayed too little. Several church members have told me it’s been a heavy, heavy week.

I want to say two things in this Saturday email:

First, come gather tomorrow. The temptation in seasons like this is to isolate yourself from community and deepen in social media. This is exactly the wrong response. It will warp your mindset and fill you with anger, some righteous and some unrighteous. You need to do exactly the opposite: you need to isolate yourself from social media and deepen in real community. The church is filled with people who are a safe place for you to bring a broken heart, and they are the type of people who will be helpful to have conversations with. Social media will prioritize the worst and most inhumane responses of this week, and you will spiral away from Christlikeness.

Second, come prepared to pray tomorrow. There are always two extremes to keep in mind when planning a Sunday Gathering. 1) You don’t want the gathering to be ruled by current events rather than the Word of God, but also 2) You want the Word of God to make contact with the real world. I am aware of how your thinking is being deeply shaped by strangers on the internet who don’t know you or care for your soul. And so we are planning on carving out time to pray about this week, the assassination and our nation’s response. I want your heart to be shaped more by the Holy Spirit and the people of God than the algorithm. As I mentioned above, our church is a safe place to bring a broken heart to.

Love you guys!


Quarter 3 is a big quarter for us. Get your planner out:

  • ONE MORE LEADERSHIP LAB THIS YEAR: We are just finishing up another Lab, and I’m going to squeeze one more in before the end of the year and you can sign-up for it right here. I am condensing it to 8 weeks (rather than 12) and we will be meeting Wednesdays at 5pm starting on October 1st in my office. Each meeting is roughly 60-75 minutes, and you can learn more about Lab right here. At Frontier, Leadership Lab is required for anybody who wants to become leadership eligible in our church.

  • WE WILL CELEBRATE BABY DEDICATIONS on October 5th & 12th. This is going to be a fun batch of child dedication, so sign-up and pick your Sunday now. Don’t forget to text or call important family members you’d like present for that Sunday!

  • APPLY FOR THE FRONTIER LEADERSHIP RESIDENCY. We were selected to receive funding from the BCI (Baptist Convention of Iowa) to take on one leadership resident for 10-15 hours/week at $1250/month. The only stipulation is that this person could be “elder qualified” and has the desire to someday be on church staff. If you have somebody you think would be a great fit, send the application to them!

  • MEMBERSHIP TOWN HALL ON SEPTEMBER 24: This is our quarterly membership meeting- we will review finances, important church decisions and family updates. Members only (since these always include sensitive information) at the church from 6-7pm. WE WILL HAVE BIG NEWS SO PLEASE MAKE TIME FOR THIS!

  • MORNING OF SOLITUDE: Alex Pasker (our deacon of prayer) will be leading a morning of solitude on October 4th from 9-noon. As always, come for whatever chunk of time best works for you (or the whole 3 hour block). These mornings are always refreshing and edifying, so get this on your calendar!

Do you want to connect with me? Whether it’s about Jesus, church, leadership, counseling or whatever. I’m your pastor and it makes me happy to spend time with you. Schedule here:

For the glory of Jesus & the joy of Des Moines,

Cole


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